I have been living a life of
influence. All the decisions in my life so far have been affected directly or
indirectly under an influence of a person or two. One such person who has
directly strike imputes on my personality through enriching my thoughts is Late
Mr. Vishwas Karulkar. He was in his retiring years when we came in contact of
each other. He lived a simple yet fulfilling life that is reflected in strong bounds
of his family and the circle of influence he was able to generate around his
charming personality.
His two most out-spoken ideologies
were ‘Self-appraisal’ and astute belief in ‘Dharma’. On the subject of religion
he preached that the ‘Dharma’ is a theory that explains to an individual the
ways to live human life. Do no harm; accept no harm were his two principles
that were installed slowly but steadily in all his disciples. He devoted his
entire life for the holy work of ‘Dharma’, which included the Godly work done
by ‘Vishwa Hindu Parishad’ for the educational wellbeing of the deprived
teenage children. Our annual share in this gigantic work was mere a monetary
help that couldn’t even help an individual to buy a Burger in a multinational’s
outlet. He gleefully accepted that without any complaint and always bowed for
our contribution.
Throughout his life he advocated
the importance of accepting the self with all the shortcomings and being loyal
to once strengths. Being a simple man, his example too were lenient and one
which we could easily relate with. To simplify the concept of self appraisal he
utilised the example as follows. He would say “when we expect a guest in our
house, we generally make our home appear beautiful. The corners are cleaned,
the furniture and rubbed, the curtains are washed and the bed sheets that
recline on our beds are colourful and new. On other days they are shoddy,
shabby and are torn in places.” He continues “for the guest who visits our
house once in his lifetime, we transform the appearance of our house to make
him feel pleasant, while we spend our entire lives in an untidy, perhaps
tattered condition in our own house. We do this as we think that we do not
deserve to live in a better house.”
How else can one justify the reason
behind an individual’s low self esteem in our society today?
The great soul passed away exactly
two years ago on this day. I am and will always be loyal to the teachings of my
Guru, Late Mr. Vishwas karulkar.
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